My favorite letters in the Dear Abbey Column are the ones she writes as a private response to an undisclosed writer.
I’ve decided that this is a perfect response to the “questionable” comments I get in my email.
This will be an ongoing project:
Private to “Most of us don’t need to see a psychiatrist—grow up!”
I’m glad that you don’t need a psychiatrist and that you think you’ve grown up.
You might want to see a behaviorist for your arrogance.
They are not really psychiatrists, so you won’t be breaking your rule.
RG
YES! So very true! Have learned this for myself as I dealt with my own “stuff” prior to getting out of the AF… the true sign of weakness is criticizing or condemning someone for having the strength to reach out!
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Thank you–I often think that the most obstinate cruelty is the cruelty that denies ones own pain.
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Hahaha! Right?
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LOL-People who live sheltered lives have no business making decisions for the rest of us.
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AMAZING!!! Yes.
I usually mention that I am in therapy during face to face conversations. And when the person/ppl I am talking to look uncomfortable, I just give them a mocking look, to say “I know you’re a hater, but you’re a bit too embarrassed to say that rude shit to my fave, aren’t you? Let’s enjoy this awkward silence that YOU have caused.”
Very satisfying as well.
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We would have so much fun together at cocktail parties…LOL…
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I think that might be why so many bloggers pre-approve comments. There’s a lot of ignorance out there waiting to pounce.
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–the goal of a troll is to turn any discussion into a pissing contest–the best strategy is to just piss and walk away.
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There are some empty spirits out there. They need to have a better life, I think.
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Excellent
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😀 Are you a grandma yet?
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Yesssss I couldn’t agree more.
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God it must be nice to live in a pain free world…I mean numb from the neck up.
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Touché I just got my first neg comment tonight and thought WoW. He actually told me to “Shut the f**k” . I was going to get rude back but deleted it instead
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Wise move!…STFU doesn’t give you alot to work with. At least he didn’t try to out smart you.
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I have a short fuse sometimes with idiots and almost sent a msg back, then realized that was what he wanted, so he could send something else. Better to just erase it so no one else has to read it, too.
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yep. I’ve got one on google+. I just report the post as abuse and watch it vanish.
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I should connect with you on g+ I’ve had a few creeps there. I just make them disappear!
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