Section of a graffiti drawing in Clarion Aley that shows a innocent woman in the arms of Satan

Dear Pathological Narcissist

Dear Pathological Narcissist,

It is not my job to make you feel good
about abusing me.

Therefore:

I will not pretend you don’t lie.

I will not pretend you’re moral.

I will not pretend you’re just joking.

I will not pretend you love me.

I will not pretend it’s OK for you
to destroy me.

21 thoughts on “Dear Pathological Narcissist

  1. I have tried to say those words….actually, I have said those words. But when you’re dealing with a narcissist…don’t you know they always find a way to turn it back around on you? Don’t you know they use those words to whine to your children about how mean and nasty their mother is and how it proves she’s insane?

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    1. I have an alternate that deals with them; an inner bitch. Sarah has no feelings when it comes to narcs. Matthew suffers guilt and looks for reasons to forgive. Sara knows the narc feeds on pushing buttons and when she comes Matthew’s ‘guilt’ disappears. The narc never knows who he’s dealing with. πŸ™‚

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      1. Agreed and a half!! πŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌπŸ’–πŸ’–

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    1. In my personal life I have a family member who lies to my treatment team in an attempt to make me look crazier than I am. Fortunately my therapist is on to it and we’ve both confronted her. I’ve told this person that I care about her and if she is willing to give me a written letter of apology, one in which she swears to stop lying, I will happily resume our friendship; but she’s a typical narcissist. She will do anything but apologize and she acts wounded because I dared to call out her lies and go no contact. The childish antics of these psychopaths would be funny if they weren’t so lethal. Think of it, a family member who lies to your doctors to sabotage treatment or a Presidents who bring the nation to its knees because he feels entitled to steal what he can never earn.

      I’m sick of the moral turpitude of these people and I intend to do everything I can to clear it out of my life, both personally and politically.

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